1) Ask her questions Over dinner, in a restaurant, nothing beats a good question or two. It doesn’t really matter what you ask, though “How was your day?” is generally better than “What’s your name again?”
2) Stop asking questions
After you have asked enough questions, particularly the right ones, there will come a time when you should stop— when you’re cuddling on the couch. “Do you mind awfully if I undo your bra?” is not sexy. The only appropriate questions are “Is that nice?” and its cognates.
3) Call her back straightaway
It’s sure. It’s decisive. It’s polite. Verbose, overworked text messages just look keen and girly. Be a man and say it in 350 characters or don’t say it at all. *Some text missing* isn’t hot. Neither are emoticons. Many a blossoming relationship has been killed stone dead by a ;{
4) Don’t be tight
When it comes to small change, taxi fares, coffee money, tips and treats,penny-pinching is a huge turn off. That said, extreme gauche. Lobster is for anniversaries, not the first generosity early on in a relationship is scary and a bit date.
5) Carry her bags
If they’re heavy, please don’t make a fuss about it, just do it. Low-key chivalry and high forearm extensor strength are both good.
6) Don’t hide your appreciation good.
Should you find yourself, so to speak, enamoured by her new outfit, then why not let her know? There is no girl alive who doesn’t want a priapic response to a new dress. This only applies to couples. Note: Most of these hints, if misapplied, could land you in trouble so do only try them at home.)
7) No” to: Clammy hands, grunting in public, salivating into earholes, “sexy” tickling, jokes about love handles and twanging bras.
“Yes” to: A firm touch and a smooth hand, a frank attitude to nudity (ie, can walk to the bathroom without embarrassment), evident and matter-of-fact carnal enjoyment, and an attentive approach to often overlooked areas of the female body —i.e, there is more to her than just the rude bits, OK?
9) Talk about ex -girlfriends
Go carefully. Too much detail and she will assume you are still hung up on them. Blanket silence and she’ll still assume the same. A fond little anecdote that puts the ex in a slightly bad light will do. Don’t slag her roundly. however, or she will conclude that you’re not quite a gentleman.
10) Careful with criticism
Say what you like about her friends, her work, her table manners: But her body is perfect in every way, right? Right. Temple: worship. Easy.